This is kind of a funny thread. However, I want to respond to the original poster's request with a suggestion.
I am not black but I belong to a great social site called iseecolor that has a predominantly black membership. It's a great site and the folks are really friendly. I dont have a lot of black friends so I've really learned a lot just reading the different threads. Some of them are very entertaining

I cannot post links yet but a google search will get you there.
The site is affiliate with Michael Baisden. I hope this helps!