[A-Haaa]

for mortgage/bills.? I work part-time, we have a 2 year old child. Partner promises all the time he will get it sorted. He has debts on credit cards and overdraught. He gives me about £90 a week but I have to ask for it. He works approx 60 hrs a week. I have had this discussion with him for about a year, nothing changes. He's not a bad man, but we're going under.Our outgoings are approx £1300 per month, I take home about £1000. He doesn't pay for grocery shopping unless I ask, then he complains he has no money.I am in UK. Would I be better off if I asked him to leave?I am constantly anxious we are going to lose everything I have worked for prior to meeting him (my own house etc).

[MarcapPub]

Are you sure that your partner is actually working those 7 days a week that he is away from home? Perhaps his money may be going elsewhere, and not to pay off accumulated debt as he may be leading you to believe. It sounds to me like he is a very irresponsible person. Nonetheless, have you actually asked him to account for what he earns and what he pays out, and to where or whom? As his partner, and with a child together, you have the right to know, and it is his obligation to tell you. If he will not tell you, and in fact show you, then he is clearly hiding something, and you may indeed be better off asking him to leave. That is a tough call, I realize, but without total honesty and openness in a relationship, it will simply not survive long term. Good luck! I wish you the best.