[Fulla Questions]

mortgage lender? My VA lender is saying I need 4% closing cost for my homeloan for $270,000. My realtor is saying that is way to much and that my lender is taking advantage of me just to make a little extra money for himself. I read online that average is 3% to 4% and my lender says that it is normal and is fine to also ask the sellers to pay all my closing cost(expect the things they are forbidden to pay by the VA) but my realtor says again that no one will pay that much in closing cost(about 10,000)? This is my first home purchase and have no idea what to do. I like my lender and my realtor but they both are saying the other is incompetent. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.Thanks again~Fulla