[Janet]

...his name on the deed not the mortgage the house.? The house is about to go on foreclose but I am asking for help with another lender only on my name. can i change the lock and kick him out. He is not paying for the child care and bills in the house.

[Clo is tired of dummies !]

I'm sorry your house is going on "foreclosure" but yes, change the locks, put his belonging on the porch of the house in nice boxes and move on. Hire a lawyer, of course and wish your husband "good luck" and "all the best"!The Container Store, has nice boxes for all type of events, if you must make this a memorable moment for him ! Good luck !!!!!!!!!!!

[the real casual poster]

No, you can't if his name is on the deed. Sounds like you are BOTH going to lose the house anyway. Stop acting like a bi tch and move on with your life.

[cindra]

Legally, he is living in HIS home. You can't kick him out. You need to seek the advice of an attorney so that you can obtain child support and spousal support.