[Mosquito]

want him knowing how much she makes, is this normal? My fiance and I have finally decide to buy a house. She knows my dad has been in the mortgage business for years.When I requested her bank statements, W2, pay stubs, etc. she out of the blue said that she doesn't want my father knowing any of that information about her. I explained to her that it's the way you get a loan. She once again she doesn't want him knowing any of her information.Is this strange? Is this simply a copout for her getting cold feet? I've asked her and all she'll say is that she doesn't want him knowing her personal info. Is this something I should be worried about, or is this a legitamate concern of hers?

[Spindrift]

This is actually a huge red flag and you need to explore further and find out what is at the root of this, explain re the mortgage and find out what her problem is before the marriage...